Wishful Thinking

The warm temperatures have been tricking me into 'spring mode'. I want warm weather, big blue skies, luscious grass, and more than anything...time!

We are down to the last two weeks of classes before finals. Considering OSU is on quarters, of course professors cram towards the end. I have quizzes, papers, worksheets, speeches, and tests galore. I am also supposed to fit work and internship hunting somewhere in that mix. Therefore, my time with Sonny is limited.

I did get out yesterday!

Emily Rodgers with Sonny, (Liberty, 30 mins) Melissa and I watched the level 3 liberty DVD over the weekend. Of course I wanted to play with some of it last night. So I set up a half circle at one end of the arena and things went well! I played with foundations such as taking the halter off and disengaging his hind end until his nose came to my elbow and so on. We also did a little stick to me. I found out the truth about our stick to me is that it is only one sided...it falls apart when I am on the right. So that gives me something to play with online!
On a side note, Sonny is getting really good at playing the touch it game with the bridle! I have got him not to touch the bit and even sometimes put his mouth on it while it is hanging up! I think the next step will be to put some molasses on it and only reward the touch it if he puts his mouth on it. Progress!

Tue 28 Feb 2012 at 09:50AM

But I won't be able to go out tonight or even tomorrow :(.

Parelli has been on my mind so much lately. Starting with the get-together on Saturday, I feel like I want to go do so much. I want to get the GOC, go on trail rides with fellow Parelli students, and attend clinics with Jesse Peters, Carol Coppinger, and Aimee Brimhall McCord. I want to catch up on all the savvy club DVDs, magazines, and read my horsemanship books. I want to get my green string, go to the fast track, and most of all become an instructor. I definitely have cabin fever; I am ready to go do things!

I have to remind myself that college is what is going to give me the opportunity to do all those things. Especially now that I am an Animal Sciences major, all this time away from Sonny will benefit me in the long run.

In the meantime, I can only look at pictures from last spring and spend my night studying daydreaming about the summer.

One of my favorites. May '11

First Parelli - Ohio Get Together!

Saturday we had out first Parelli - Ohio! get together!! Boy, oh, boy, what fun!

We all met at 2* instructor Laura Beavers' place. She owns a beautiful house, a nice barn, and a great indoor arena! We all met around noon and had a great lunch. We had creamed chicken, chili, fruit salad, chips, cheese, humus, veggies, pound cake, cookies, and an amazing jello dessert! Needless to say, the food was fantastic!

While we munched Laura put in the first DVD of the Game of contact. Now I definitely need to go buy it! What we saw looked really awesome.

Some of us ladies eating and
watching the GOC.

We also went over some stuff for the group! We determined we want red shirts that have silver/white writing. We still need to work on some of the design, but I am very excited about getting the group shirts for Equine Affaire and the Tour!!

We planned a few trail rides, but we didn't plan another get together. I am so excited about this group! It was such an amazing time to be around people who are like-minded! We had so many wonderful conversations and it was great to be able to discuss things with people who understand you! I cannot wait for our next get-together!

Joy Ride

I have been really busy with school lately, which is unfortunately cutting into my time with Sonny. But, only three weeks left, then finals, then a cruise, then next quarter I should have plenty of Sonny time!

Anyways, the time I have been able to spend with his has been great! For some reason, freestyle isn't out strong point. But, I have rode three times over the past week and it has been wonderful!

I realized that I am still expecting perfection while riding. The past few rides, especially last night, I really worked on just making my good better, and my better best, without expecting everything to be perfect. That made such a difference!

For one, it made me lighten up a lot. Just last night I realized I don't ever smile while riding. Which is strange, considering I am almost always smiling online and at liberty. As sensitive as Sonny is, I know he has to notice. That made me think about myself and what I am doing while riding. I spend so much time focusing on him and what he is doing, I don't focus on myself at all.

So last night I really focused on smiling, being aware of what I am doing, and actually enjoying myself! I put effort into controlling my energy, and mainly focusing on the task and myself, instead of just him. Of course, things fell into place and he was happy and I was happy and we actually had a really enjoyable ride! For once I wasn't so hung up on perfection that we actually got to have fun. Not only were we having a good time, everything was so much better than it normally is! He was following the rail, listening to my phase one, changing direction at the trot without taking off, putting effort into the question box, and even putting effort into jumping the little cross rail I had set up!

So my lesson of the day: I need to start playing while riding. Just because I am in the saddle doesn't mean I have to be serious and everything has to be perfect. It is more important to focus on me, such my energy and focusing where I am going, than to focus on him. When I am hold up my end of the bargain, he will fall into place. And most importantly, the more I enjoy myself, the more he will, too!

Friday Favorite #4

This week's Friday Favorite is:


One of my favorite moments in my life...The award ceremony at the 2005 Dressage Regional Championships! 

All of us girls; LaBelle, Roberta, and me!

2005 was the first year I competed with LaBelle, after purchasing her late October. We showed a few times, competing in Training and First Level. We did extremely well in both and decided it would be good experience and a lot of fun to show at Regionals! Ohio in in Region 2, along with 6 other states. Considering the competition was tough since qualified riders from 7 different states competed together, I didn't except a whole lot.


Much to my surprise, we won training level, out of ~30 other horses! I was so happy. At the time I was training with Roberta Williams. Since it was her, LaBelle and me, our 'theme song' was always Girls Just Want to Have Fun! We got them to play the song for my victory gallop and things couldn't have been any more perfect! One of my most favorite days ever!

Round Pen Fun

I have never been in a round pen and am not sure if Sonny has either. We have been playing a lot at liberty lately, but I think a round pen would really help us. Since real ones are expensive and we can't play outside anyways, Evan made us a great temporary one right in the indoor! He used cones, reflective posts, and some kind of caution tape (that is pink and doesn't say caution).

We didn't mess with it for too long, but of course Sonny was brilliant. It was great to see how many laps he could maintain with me in neutral. The best part was he even maintained some trot circles close to me, without following the round pen rail!

After we played a bit with the circling game, I took him out of the round pen, wanting our first round pen experience to be short and sweet!

We then played with a bit of figure 8's, and those were the best we have ever done. I have been trying to do them with the least amount of pressure on my featherline as possible (in preparation for liberty!) and he did fantastic! 

After that, we practiced with some sideways at a distance. I have been trying to improve my savvy by playing the games as far away as possible. His sideways gets a little slower at a distance, but is definitely improving! 

I ended after that because I needed to go home and study, but overall we had a really good night :). Thanks to Evan and Melissa for the round pen and the photos!

Sonny's Birthday Bash

Today is Sonny's 13th birthday! We had a great day playing, getting outside, eating a plethora of yummy treats, and overall having a great time!

Have you ever wondered how Parelli horses celebrates their birthdays? Well....

They have a ball!

Unconditional Love

By definition, Unconditional Love is a term that means to love someone regardless of the loved one's qualities or actions. The term never made sense to me until I got Sonny.

Thursday night we hit a rough patch. Sonny has issues with bits that date back to his old owners (and who knows how far back it started before that), so I have never ridden him with one. Now that we are moving towards finesse, I want to start getting him to like the bit. We were making progress, but I pushed him past his threshold Thursday and felt so bad about it. He was tense and unhappy and I thought for sure that was going to negatively affect our relationship.

But last night was so perfect and I couldn't have been any happier. The weather was nasty and I had homework to do so I didn't plan on spending much time at the barn, but wanted to have a good night to make up for my mistakes Thursday night.

Right off the bat he blew me away. As you know we have been playing with laying down, but he has been moving around a lot before he will lay. Usually I walk him to the end of the arena and ask, then he walks around a couple of circles then finally lays down. Last night I thought I would try it as soon as we got into the arena. Right in front of the gate I asked him to lay down, then kept a light rhythmic motion on the line (I just had my featherline attached). Since he is such a superstar of course he laid down right beside me!! I was ecstatic. He is so stinkin' smart I can't even keep up!

On top of that, he was totally LBE last night and I loved it. He was so playful and wanted to go, go, go. I brought out the big green ball and he was cantering it around the arena! He has mastered moving it on the go, but has never cantered with it before! Then the ball got stuck and he fell up on top of it and his front legs were smashed into it and I thought for sure he was going to break a leg. Then he popped up and continued chasing it haha! Along with that, he was bucking, rearing, jumping straight up in the air and being all sorts of energetic (definitely not LBI! ;)). Another boarder was in the arena working her show horse...I am sure she and her dad think I own some crazy beast now!

I wanted to get on and just walk around to, again, make up for the bad ride on Thursday. I didn't have anything but a featherline, so I just tied my savvy string around his neck. I did a few turns and he was amazing. Without even my carrot stick, he was doing turns on the forehand...just based on my weight and leg position! His turns were so good forehand and hindend, for the heck of it I asked for a step sideways without reins, carrotstick or a wall. Of course he went perfectly sideways :). Considering I have only played with sideways without reins a handful of times, I was extremely pleased!

I got off after that since I wanted to end on a good note. I had him stand there while I fetched my featherline. As I was walking back up to him, I stopped at his butt. Sonny knows that if I raise my hand, he moves his butt towards me (like sideways towards me), so just playing around, I stopped behind him and raised my hand. It was so funny because I could tell he was watching me get the rope because as soon as I raised my hand, his head shot up and his ears were moving...trying to figure out what I wanted. He thought about it for a while, but I remained still letting him figure it out. After a minute or so he took a step backwards! How awesome!

So my lesson of the day is: It doesn't matter what we accomplish. If he never wants to wear a bit, fine with me. That is so far from importance that there was no need at all for me to be upset about it or for me to push him in any kind of way. All that matters is the relationship; as long as we always have that, the love will be unconditional.

How Much You Care

I haven’t been posting a lot lately, but I have spent a lot of time thinking. Sonny and I have been progressing so much these past couple of weeks and I couldn’t figure out why, until today.

A few nights ago we had a really good ride. Of course we played with carrot stick riding but also really focused on forehand, hindend, then sideways. I haven’t asked much for sideways without reins and it went SO well! We got a lot of good steps and some licking and chewing.

Tonight was fantastic. He was all ears; more happy faces than ugly faces is always an amazing night. His sideways is improving, slow hand carrot stick transitions were awesome, and even his upward transitions were right on the money. He was responsive and happy about it! On top of that, I got him to roll three times, which means he totally gets what I am asking. The best part is that the last roll didn’t require much wandering around! I am blown away by how fast he caught on to laying down and how amazing it was for him to do it without a ton of steps tonight! I couldn’t be happier!

Blurry, but cute :)

When I first read Kristi Smiths’s blog, Your Needs are My Needs, I thought I understood it. LBI’s need incentive and rest and I really didn't apply it much more than that. Tonight it finally clicked. Lately Sonny and I have been doing a whole lot of nothing. We have been taking walks down the road, soaking up the sunshine, eating grass, rolling, and not much else. This is not because I think we need undemanding time, but mainly because the weather has been so nice that I want him to have the chance to get out as much as possible. Before I have talked about spending undemanding time with him because he needs a break and we need that relationship building time, but this undemanding time has been completely different. We didn’t need to, but I wanted to do it for him. We have been going on walks, sunbathing, and spending a lot of time grazing because I care about him…and he notices. The more I put effort into doing things for him, the more effort he puts into doing things for me. And when I say doing things for him, I don’t mean what I used to think: things like giving him time to think because that means a better face. When I think about it, I am doing that for me; I want the better face so giving him time to think benefits me. I am starting to believe that all this checking in with me stuff and all the happy faces is a reflection of him realizing I am putting effort into doing things just for him, so he is asking what can he do for me in return. Kristi didn’t title her blog My Needs are Your Needs, but Your Needs Are My Needs. Because in the end, you’re horse doesn’t care how much you know until he knows how much you care.

Stop, Drop, and Roll

I have finally taught Sonny to lay down! I have been wanting to do this for a long time, but only recently got the motivation to really play with it. It has only been about a week or so and I am so happy with the results! I hope to keep improving it, especially to where he doesn't have to walk around so much. I have a few more ideas to add to it, so stay turned for updates!



(I am not sure why the video is so blurry. Maybe it has to do with the layers of dust on my camera lens? That's what happens when you live in a barn!)

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